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Balding at 16 Taught Me You’re Never Too Young To Learn About Stress Management

Aysia C.
3 min readJul 29, 2020

It started at just the nape of my head. My dreadlocks began breaking off one by one from the root.

I was choosing what colleges I wanted to go to and making sure my grades stayed at an A average.

It started moving to the middle. My dreadlocks were getting thinner. I decided to combine them, hoping they would hold on for a bit longer.

I was pouring my heart and soul into studying for SATs and ACTs.

It spread to the sides above my ears. They weren’t going to hold on — I had to start cutting.

I was slaving over college applications while trying to stay at the top of my class.

It popped up at the crown of my head.

Baldness.

I was going to graduate in a month with an A average, a scholarship at an amazing university, and a Valedictorian’s sash.

And I was going bald.

I wasn’t supposed to bald. No, not yet.

In the beginning, I thought, “It’s no biggie. I’m young. The hair will just grow back.” Then two years passed, and the hair in those sparse spots had hardly grown an inch.

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Aysia C.
Aysia C.

Written by Aysia C.

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